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Yes, the transition can be a bit overwhelming...just when you thought you had no need to step inside a "Happy Hour" again...you find yourself "suddenly single".  For those of us over 30, that thought can be even more intimidating. Ok, here's my take on this- for starters, don't give in to the pressure of "having" to hit the town if you are not ready. When you do feel ready for a night on the town with your friends - don't go out with the mind set of meeting prince charming. The best times I've had with my friends have been when we are just unwinding and enjoying each others company. We don't prowl in search of "potentials" or just stand there sending out a "talk to me, please" vibe...We'll find a comfortable spot and wine/dine ourselves...That positive, independent synergy is very captivating - not to mention fun. You'll find yourself looking forward to after-hours in a whole new light. As for meeting that special someone, well chances are you will meet them in the most unexpected of places. So, be sure to always look your best...chance encounters are by far the most romantic. There's someone for everyone, don't stop enjoying yourself until it happens...